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Patrick W. Boutilette

December 22, 1970 — September 26, 2025

Webster

WEBSTER – Patrick W. Boutilette, 54, of School Street, died very unexpectedly on Friday, September 26, 2025, at Harrington Healthcare at Hubbard in Webster.

He is survived by his wife of 27 years, Emily (Hanley) Boutilette of Webster; three children, Stephen A. Boutilette, Becca M. Boutilette, and Alexis B. Boutilette, all of Webster; a brother, Robert Boutilette Jr. of Charlton; two sisters, Donmarie Boutilette-Smith of Oxford, and Patricia Boutilette of Charlton; an aunt; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

He was born in Worcester, son of the late Robert and Alice (Lestha) Boutilette, and lived most of his life in Oxford before moving to Webster in 2022. He graduated from Oxford High School in Oxford, and later earned his associate degree in occupational health and safety.

Patrick was a health and safety inspector for the Massachusetts Department of Transportation for the last 3 years. Previously, he was a dispatcher for the Massachusetts State Police for over 20 years, retiring from the New Braintree barracks. In addition, he worked for K’s Ambulance Service in Oxford as an EMT.

He was the Bancroft assistant volleyball coach, and co-director of the Dragons Volleyball Club, both in Worcester. He enjoyed singing with the Girl Scouts, and loved music and singing throughout his life.

A funeral will be held on Monday, October 6, 2025, from Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford, followed by a Mass at 11 a.m. at St. Brigid’s Church, 59 Main St., Millbury. Burial will be private at a later date. Calling hours are Saturday, October 4, 2025, from 4-8 p.m. and Sunday, October 5, 2025, also from 4-8 p.m. at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Patrick W. Boutilette Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Webster Five Cent Savings Bank, 343 Main Street, Oxford, MA 01540.

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