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Tammie A. Weaver

March 21, 1963 — September 29, 2025

Dudley

DUDLEY – Tammie A. (Benkowski) Weaver, 62, of Schofield Avenue, died peacefully in her home on Monday, September 29, 2025, surrounded by her family after a battle with cancer.

She is survived by her husband of 40 years, Kimberly “Dutch” B. Weaver of Dudley; three daughters, Kristin L. Prochnow of Dudley, Lauren A. Brien and her husband Shane of Worcester, and Stefanie S. Maldonado Weaver and her husband Estuardo Maldonado of Dudley; a brother, Edward J. Morse and his wife Cindy of Russellville, KY; a sister, Susan A. Reardon of Oxford; seven grandchildren, Makayla, Kiley, Aleciyah, Natalia, Isabella, River, and Lincoln; and many nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by three brothers, Russell E. Morse Jr., Scott S. Benkowski, and Stephen F. DiBonaventura Jr; and two sisters, Deborah L. Peterson and Linda Ann Morse.

She was born in Webster, daughter of the late Stephen F. and Mary Agnes (Shaw) DiBonaventura, and lived most of her life in Webster and Oxford before moving to Dudley in 2024. She graduated from Bartlett High School in Webster.

Mrs. Weaver was a homemaker throughout her life, lovingly caring for her home and family. In her younger years, she worked at the Ground Round in Worcester. She enjoyed dancing and was a majorette when she was in school. She enjoyed playing softball, country music, tanning, cooking for her family, and playing slots at the casino. She would always watch her favorite shows every week. Most of all, she was a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, and would do anything for her family.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, October 14, 2025, at Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery in Dudley. A calling hour will be held on Tuesday, October 14, 2025, from 10-11 a.m. prior to the service.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-1942.

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